https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/written-media daily 0.75 2022-08-11 https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/written-media/blog-post-title-one-twsny monthly 0.5 2022-07-24 https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/written-media/blog-post-title-two-5c46a monthly 0.5 2022-07-24 https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/written-media/men-suffer-too monthly 0.5 2022-08-11 https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/contact daily 0.75 2022-06-29 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6279d65a2bc86217680402ca/bbba84f1-6376-46e2-b1a3-6885e58a9e35/549A3259.jpg Contact - Make it stand out Whatever it is, the way you tell your story online can make all the difference. https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/freetobe-friday daily 0.75 2022-06-21 https://www.shadesofnonmonogamy.com/about daily 0.75 2023-07-20 https://images.squarespace-cdn.com/content/v1/6279d65a2bc86217680402ca/bda953ad-e75f-451e-a4d7-bec563e94218/IMG_1619.jpg About - Meet Melissa I love to work with and welcome folx (especially heart-centered, pleasure-seeking sensitive folx) who desire emotional, sexual & relational freedom. Drawing from my professional and personal experience, I am excited to help individuals and intimate partners connect with and live out their full unapologetic sexual and relational selves. In short, my strength is in emotions. I help individuals and intimate partners feel their feelings (especially vulnerable ones) and help them create an intentional and personal practice for emotional self-nurturing; a foundation for emotional grounding and sexual and relational freedom. It's something to feel better, but getting better at feeling is where its at! You are the expert of you and your relationship(s). I show up as a mirror to potential emotional blind spots (with your guidance) and as a sexuality and relationship resource for you as you need. About me: Fluent in English, knows some Spanish. Latinx- Mexican/Panamanian. Fluid sexuality kinky cis-gendered woman. Specialties: Non-monogamy, Spiritual’ish practices and stuff, Emotional wellness and practices, Sensitive people/empaths. 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My strength lies in my ability to help folks see all the options that are truly in front of them and to help make their desires reality by getting as creative as they want to be. Passions: Helping new partners identify and confront potential general relationship and/or non-monogamy conflicts and challenges. Helping men to confront their personal struggles in supporting their partner’s desires. 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